In his defense... He's doing his job... Which is to moderate. He has to ensure that a set of standards for this community are met. It should be pretty well known that the language and context of the conversations should essentially be PG. Currently, I am very active in Discord and have seen all the conversations of concern. Despite the way it was handled, I for one am glad there is vigilance in addressing this toxicity. So while you may say he is a "abit of a prick," I would commend him and the other mods for that matter, on getting this level of unhealthy/unproductive conversation out of here.
So many people have these, (IMO), ridiculous levels of expectation. You're asking what is an extremely small development team to divert their attention away from the main focus of the issue here, which is the development progress, just to address each of your individual concerns. They want to showcase a good product for your investment. In order for them to do that it will require them to focus solely on the development of the game. Why is it necessary for you to be updated on the development progress every day, or every other day, or every week? That's silly to me. There has been no indication that they are going to take your money and run, which seems to be the sentiment for some of you. If anything, it's quite the opposite!
Please! I implore you to exercise more patience and prudence in your posts. It's when you show a lack of these that problems arise. The mods are there to rein that in. So, when you're asked to stop, take a moment to reflect at how the likelihood of your commentary is unproductive and having a negative effect. I, for one, have seen so many game communities become a cesspool of negativity and toxic behavior. Let us mold this community into something better than the rest.