hi there in discord is written that i have to type in here that im the same person like in discord well im "XeRoXgaming" same as in discord... duno who should i type at ... im not that often in use with forums im sorry when im wrong here !
There's a special thread about the Discord server. It should be easy to find because it's a very active one. You'll probably get verified by @Noveltease who is a very active mod in the Discord server. I don't know what the steps exactly are but you can read it in that thread.
EDIT: It's here: http://forums.islandsofnyne.com/t/islands-of-nyne-discord-server/505/201